been there, i try my best to be supporting to my girlfriend but there are just a lot of times i have no clue what to say or do. my default is mostly “everything’s cool” just cause i don’t know what may trigger her.
OH yes! That’s excactly what I have been struggling with lately. I have even thought about asking her what her triggers are. BUT WHAT IF THAT WILL TRIGGER HER?
I wonder if this is what others think when they are talking to me.. though i feel awful when they are not saying anything.. I feel like they had enough.. They are tired.. They don’t want to listen to my craps anymore and such.. it drove me crazy every time one of them or all of them didn’t say anything or only said a few words.. not that i blame them though..
been there, i try my best to be supporting to my girlfriend but there are just a lot of times i have no clue what to say or do. my default is mostly “everything’s cool” just cause i don’t know what may trigger her.
OH yes! That’s excactly what I have been struggling with lately. I have even thought about asking her what her triggers are. BUT WHAT IF THAT WILL TRIGGER HER?
I wonder if this is what others think when they are talking to me.. though i feel awful when they are not saying anything.. I feel like they had enough.. They are tired.. They don’t want to listen to my craps anymore and such.. it drove me crazy every time one of them or all of them didn’t say anything or only said a few words.. not that i blame them though..